Vagina Piercings

Now that we got your attention, we are going to turn your attention to vagina piercings. Why you ask? Well, we believe that you will have better phone sex if you keep building your sexual repertoire. Why you ask again? Having great phone sex on our one on one lines requires you to be descriptive and imaginative. One of the reasons we blog about so many different topics is to arouse your curiosity about sexuality in new and interesting ways. Vagina piercings fall into that category. Sure, you may have seen a pornstar with a vagina piercing in a naughty movie or saw a centerfold with some bling on her bean but what do you really know about these sexy adornments?

Vagina Piercings
Vagina Piercings

Here we will answer some basic vagina piercing questions so that you will know more than you ever thought you would about vaginal piercings. Lets start with why someone would get their vagina (really their vulva) pierced. The common answer to that question is why not? Piercing the vagina is just as easy as piercing a belly button, eyebrow or ear. Plus it just looks super hot so if you have an unpierced vagina but want to change that, go for it! Vulva piercings are also popular because they are still considered taboo. Some women feel naughty by having their vaginas pierced and it is a piercing that is always hidden, unless you want to show someone or are being intimate with them!

When going in for a piercing, you may need to consider the gauge or thickness of the jewelry that you will be wearing. The thinner the gauge the quicker the piercing will heal and typically there will be little to no blood after the deed is done. Also, there are many different types of vaginal piercings but the most popular one that most people recognize is the clitoral hood piercing. These are especially popular with the ladies because many report a heightened sense of sexual arousal as the piercing rubs all the right spots!

Pricing on having your pussy pierced can vary greatly. Much of the cost depends on the jewelry you choose. Professionals in the piercing field recommend doing your homework and going with a piercer that is well established and someone that you feel comfortable with. Also make sure the shop is clean and sterile. The actual piercing typically takes less than three minutes!

Now that you have a wealth of knowledge on vaginal piercings, pick up the phone and get a sexy conversation started on the free trial chatline about how you would like to play with your partners piercing. Or if you are in one of our communal party phone rooms, see if anyone in the room is pierced down there and ask if they are willing to talk about it.

Compersion

Have you ever heard of the term compersion? Compersion is when you get turned on when you find your partner attracted to another man or woman. It can also refer to getting turned on when your lover is in the act of getting it on with someone other than you. Compersion is a term used in many polyamorous relationships and it describes the state of feeling and being turned on when your partner is attracted to another person, rather than feeling jealous about it. A really safe way to begin playing around with compersion to see if you and your partner can experience that heightened level of sexual arousal, is to watch your lover call in for a one on one call to one of our free trial chatlines.

Compersion
Compersion

We recommend planning a sexy evening with candles and whatever gets you in the mood for romantic fun. Once you are ready to start the evening, pick up and dial into one of our lines for your lover. Once he or she is on the phone, sit back and give them space as they delve into a sexy conversation with one of our operators. Listen to what he or she is saying and watch as they get turned on by someone outside of your relationship. If you start to feel turned on by the fact that your partner is getting sexual aroused by someone other than you, you my friend have reached compersion.

Playing around on our phone lines with your lover is a great way to add a little spice to your sex life in a safe way, in your safe space and under your own terms. Many couples that are thinking about swinging will give our lines a call together so that they can begin to experiment with what it is like to have others partake in their shared sexual experience.

Do Open Relationships Work?

Have you ever wondered if open relationships work? The simple answer to that question is sometimes. It really depends on the people involved but there are many couples out there that live long, happy, healthy sex filled lives in open relationships. In fact, many of the people that call into our free trial chatline community have longstanding open relationships and most are more than happy to talk about it.

Do Open Relationships Work
Do Open Relationships Work

If you’ve been thinking of broaching the topic of setting up an open relationship with your BAE, we suggest being completely upfront and honest and keeping a very strong line of communication open with your significant other. Communication and understanding are key to having an open dialogue about what you would like in an open relationship both for yourself and your partner. We would even go so far as to recommend calling into one of our party lines with your lover and talking about open relationships with some of our phone community members! Who knows, you may even find yourself and your BAE in a sexy online phone conversation, which can be a step in the right direction to beginning an open relationship!

It’s never too late in a relationship to start a conversation about exploring options other than monogamy. If you and your partner have a very active sex life in which you discuss your fantasies, watch porn together and have had side lovers in other relationships you’ve been in the conversation about opening your relationship up may come easier than for a couple that is less forthcoming when it comes to talking about sex. After reaching out to some of the members in our online phone community, you can check out some of the swinger sites online to gain an even better understanding about how you and your lover can get in the open relationship game.